Being a swinger means that rules must be followed. Or you won't swing for long. Personal safety and pleasure go hand in hand, but you've got to respect the people you're with.

“No” means “No”

Members have the right to say “No.” If you are not comfortable or you are generally not interested with the particular couple or person a polite “No, thank you” is required with no explanation. 

Hygiene

As silly or how obvious this point maybe, it is important to smell fresh. It is a great idea to shower, shave and apply perfume / cologne to one self. This will make the experience of swinging more enjoyable. PS: bring safe sex equipment. 

Safe Sex

It is important to come prepared to a swinger’s party. The times have changed and safe sex is becoming the status quo. So it is very important and within your rights to express to other couples that you require the use of condoms. 

Alcohol and Drugs

Its not proper etiquette to get wasted at a swinger’s party. If you have an excessive personality it is probably not the best idea to participate in these parties. The best rule of thumb is to ask the host of party if it is ok to bring any alcohol or drugs. 

You must leave with partner you came with

It is not acceptable behavior to leave with another person’s partner or to stay when your partner has left. With swinger parties it is all about RESPECT. Remember this and your experience will be an enjoyable one and you may get more invitations to other parties.